Why are some children affected and others not?

Genes and personality

Some children are simply born more nervous and anxious and less able to cope with stress than other children.

Achild's anxious personality may be partly determined by the genes they've inherited from their parents. Parents of anxious children may recognise the signs and remember feeling and behaving the same when they were younger.

Stressful environment

Children can pick up anxious behaviour from being around anxious people. If you're worried that your child might be influenced by our own behaviour, you might want to listen to these podcasts offering advice about anxiety and worry and explaining how you can take control of your anxiety .

Some children can also develop anxiety after a series of stressful events. They may be able to cope with one of these events, but several difficult events together may be too much for them to cope with. Examples are:

  • Frequently moving house and school it can be hard to settle when you're always expecting change
  • Divorce or separation of parents , especially when there are new step parents and siblings (although many children will adapt to this and settle in time)
  • Parents fighting or arguing
  • Death of a close relative or friend
  • Becoming seriously ill or injured in an accident
  • Having someone in the family who is ill or disabled
  • School-related issues such as homework or exams, orbullying or friendship problems
  • Becoming involved in crime
  • Being abused or neglected

Medical conditions

Children with certain conditions such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD ) and autistic spectrum disorders may experience anxiety as part of the symptoms of their condition, because of differences in the way their brain functions.

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Medically Reviewed by a doctor on 21 Dec 2018